Just Nicky

“I’m never going to be famous. My name will never be writ large on the roster of Those Who Do Things. I don’t do any thing. Not one single thing. I used to bite my nails, but I don’t even do that any more.” ~ Dorothy Parker

 

There’s no place like home May 27, 2005

Filed under: The thing in my head — Mark @ 2:38 pm

Yes, I am home and doing pretty well.

Thank you to all of you for your good wishes and support and for not visiting. It was really nice to know that you were all thinking of me, but it was only in the last 2 or 3 days that I felt much like visits and I was glad not to see too many people for the rest of the time. I even managed to convince The Mavis not to visit!

As I’m sure Mark’s told you all, the operation was a success. The tumour is 100% gone and definitely benign (didn’t know there was any doubt until they said that on Wednesday - gotta love doctors and their lies of omission). The hearing nerve is intact but there was a problem with the blood vessels so it doesn’t work - I have no hearing in the left ear. I don’t know if this is a permanent situation, but I suspect it probably is. I’m getting more steady on my feet daily and am feeling much better just for being at home.

I thought of lots of stuff I wanted to blog while I was away - even made a few notes - but for now I’ll keep it short.

2 things I must say, though:
Nurses are fucking fantastic! If you know a nurse, give her a hug from me - unless she’s the woman who woke me at 2am and wanted to know how much water I’d drunk in the previous 24 hours. The others, though, were all great and managed to be caring and friendly without condescending or being otherwise annoying.
The other non-medical staff - orderlies, cleaner, food delivery type people, I’m not sure what their proper title is - were also marvellous. Quiet and unobtrusive when I needed them to be and friendly and chatty when I was up to it.

Woozy-headedness is winning now so I’ll blog more later.

 
 

Standing Up and Sitting Down May 20, 2005

Filed under: The thing in my head — Mark @ 8:08 pm

I saw Nicky is hospital today and she is up to very short walks and sitting in a chair which is a massive leap forward. She also has lots of lovely flowers that people have sent her so a big thank you to those people.

With any luck she will be home late next week.

Mark

 
 

Post Op May 18, 2005

Filed under: The thing in my head — Mark @ 9:05 pm

Sorry the news is so late but the operation took a long time. From my best estimate about eight hours and then Nicky spent another three hours in recovery.

She is feeling pretty crappy at the moment on account of major sensitivity to light and sound not to mention double vision.

The doctor tells us that the operation was a success and went well. Nicky will not be up to visitors this week but I will certainly be printing off emails and taking them in.

If people want to send flowers please make them ones with low scent as scented things tend to give her a headache.

 
 

Checked In May 17, 2005

Filed under: The thing in my head — Mark @ 4:23 pm

Nicky is now safely checked into hospital and was last seen reclining on her bed and happily knitting. She is first cab off the rank tomorrow and will be out of surgery mid-afternoon.

More news when I have it.

Mark

 
 

The date is set April 19, 2005

Filed under: The thing in my head — Mark @ 4:43 pm

I saw the ENT surgeon who will be removing my tumour today and got a date for the operation.

Wednesday the 18th of May.

I will be in hospital from the day before until the following Thursday or Friday. The surgeon recommended that I take another 4 weeks off after that. So that’s about 6 weeks all up.

Weird as it may sound, I feel much better for being able to say 18th of May.

I like to have deadlines to work towards.